Say what you think, feel and need, without being afraid of how they'll react.
A free workbook from Trevor for people-pleasers, peacekeepers and anyone who stays quiet to avoid conflict. One short reflection a day for 30 days, with practical exercises, Biblical insight and prayer.
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Learn to Be Honest Without Being Afraid
Understanding yourself, overcoming fear and speaking truth with love
30 days to speak honestly and still love well.
- Spot the fears and beliefs that keep you quiet, and where they came from.
- Learn to say what you need without turning it into a fight.
- Set boundaries without overexplaining or feeling guilty.
- Walk into uncomfortable conversations grounded in who God made you to be.
- Daily Scripture, reflection questions and a short prayer.
- Practical exercises you can use the same day.
“He will hand you a mirror and journey with you into identifying the rotten branches; aka the patterns and beliefs that need to be pruned while pointing you back to God.”Maquita D., one-on-one coaching client
Trevor teaches Scripture and relationships to over 200,000 followers on TikTok and is the author of two books.
Before you download.
Is it really free?
Yes. There is nothing to pay. You enter your name and email and the guide is yours.
Who is it for?
Anyone who finds it hard to say what they think, feel and need, whether that's with a spouse, family, friends or at work. Married or single, men or women.
Do I have to confront anyone?
No. This is about understanding yourself and learning to communicate with honesty and love. It is not about becoming confrontational or controlling how others respond.
Is this counseling or therapy?
No. Trevor offers coaching and Biblical teaching. He is not a licensed counselor or therapist.
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